Confidence in Kids is the Key!

I recently heard about a teenager in Cumming who ended his own life with a gun in the past couple weeks. When I hear of these things, I automatically think of the parents and what could have been so bad, for it to come to this. I think of...

1. Could someone have said one kind word that would have made the difference?
2. What could have been so bad?
3. How could someone or myself "pay it forward" to stop this tragedy?

I have the opportunity once in a while to connect with children when they come into Jumpsters for some active play or a party. This is probably the best part of owning my small business. I appreciate so much the gift of helping kids realize their true potential . and that "they can do it," no matter what it is! There is nothing quite like seeing the sense of accomplishment and pride in a childs face after they have climbed up an inflatable wall or after doing something that just seemed unobtainable. I often think to myself....

1. Do I have any preconceived notions about my children and others that have no basis in reality?

2. If a child knew that they could not fail, how far would they be able to go in life? How much could they accomplish?

3. What impact does optimism and encouragement at early ages play in a childs self-concept and self esteem when they are younger.

My post today is simply a realization that each of us will not be here forever, and that the words we say to our children mean a lot about who they will be in the future. - mark